"The Karate Kid" was one of my favorite movies to watch when I was growing up. The character arch of Daniel-san stuck with me, with Mr. Miyagi being my fictional soul-guide before I even fully understood the meaning of such a role. As I've gotten older, Mr. Miyagi has remained a character I strive to emulate.
With that said, I know many people have never seen this iconic movie and therefore have no idea who the heck this magnificent man is. This is why I've written this for you (admittedly with some help from an AI monster), in case you are one of those people (poor thing) or you're needing a little reminder (I got you):
Mr. Miyagi embodies a unique style of mentorship characterized by seven key principles:
1. Patience and Calm: Mr. Miyagi is always composed and patient, never rushing his teachings or reactions. He understands the importance of allowing his student to learn at their own pace. (For me, this also looks like not chasing you down to make sure you're doing XYZ. Though, if you ask for reminders/check-ins, I'm happy to oblige.)
2. Lead by Example: Instead of just telling his student what to do, Mr. Miyagi often demonstrates techniques himself, showing the correct way through his actions. (I'll never ask you to do something I'm not willing to do myself.)
3. Emphasis on Fundamentals: His teaching starts with the basics. For example, he begins with simple tasks like painting a fence or waxing a car, which later reveal themselves as fundamental karate movements. (Following along in Birth Rhythms helps provide a common foundation off of which we can build, together.)
4. Holistic Approach: Mr. Miyagi doesn't just focus on physical techniques but also emphasizes mental (and spiritual) discipline, respect, and *self-control (or, *intention). His teachings extend beyond fighting into how to live a balanced life.
5. Personal Connection: He develops a deep personal bond with his student, Daniel-san, which fosters trust and a willingness to learn. (Spending time together is key to nurturing this important relationship aspect of my support method.)
6. Unexpected Lessons: Often, his teachings come in unexpected forms. Tasks initially seen as unrelated to karate turn out to hold valuable lessons and techniques. (It's true.)
7. Encouragement and Support: While firm, Mr. Miyagi is also encouraging and supportive. He believes in his student's potential and helps them believe in themselves. (Also true; I do believe in you. Though, rather than being stern, I'm probably more forthright.)
Overall, Mr. Miyagi's mentorship style blends wisdom, patience, and a deep understanding of both martial arts and life principles, making him a memorable and effective mentor figure. (And this is what I aim to embody, in my practices.)
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